Breaking the Cycle of Invisibility

In last week’s post (Are You Easy to Ignore?) I talked about how childhood experiences can make us feel invisible. If you’re used to feeling like others aren’t interested in you, you might be frustrated. I  hope you’re also wondering what’s really going on, and how you might be able to change it. I fear there’s something in you that suspects you know the answer, and it ain’t pretty. Could it be true that you’re …

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Are You Easy to Ignore?

Here’s an interesting stat for you: One hundred percent of adults I see in therapy who feel invisible, have felt that way since childhood. What about you? Do you ever feel invisible? By invisible I mean emotionally and socially blending in with the furniture. Do you ever feel as though nothing would be different in a given setting if you weren’t physically there? Like you don’t have much of an impact on people around you? …

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