Psychotherapist, Author, Estrangement Consultant
If someone has cut you off, and the two of you aren’t speaking, it can feel like something is being done to you. It’s like you’re the victim and they’re the perpetrator.
But if you take a step back and look at the entire picture over time, it’s probably not quite like that.
Do you have an email, mailing address, website, or phone number for the person?
Do you know where they work or play? Read More
There’s an article about estrangement on my website that gets more feedback than any article I’ve written before or since. In that article, I offer strategies for the person who’s been cut off by someone and wants to get back together.
The gist of it is this: Like it or not, whether you agree with them or not, the “cutter-offer” perceives a reason for cutting you off. If you want to reunite, it’s up to you to make amends rather than expecting them to see the error of their ways. Read More