“Stop Crying, Or I’ll Give You Something to Cry About”

Did you ever hear these words when you were a kid? Have you said them yourself? If you were told, “Stop crying, or I’ll give you something to cry about,” here’s what you learned: 1. The world is a dangerous place. If Mommy or Daddy or Grandma or the babysitter threatens to make you cry, what might a stranger do? Trust is necessary for healthy relationships. Children learn to trust others by experiencing safety with …

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The “V” word

VICTIM: What comes to mind when you hear that word? Don’t be a victim. She’s always playing the victim. I’m not a victim, I’m a survivor. Let me be the first to stand up and say that people should be allowed to use their own words when they talk about themselves. If you identify as a survivor rather than a victim, I honor your truth and your choice of words. But if you feel victimized, …

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